Sunday, September 25, 2016

On Looking Out at the Forest from Your Tree...



 Myth  --Bree Roark

     When I was younger, sleep was more of a friend than an acquaintance.  He and I would spend happy hours together enjoying each other's company.  We lightheartedly ignored the morning sun's growing impatient requests for attention in favor of drowsy check-ins with the late morning's stern disapproval.  We laughed and ran, instead, through the flowering fields of Southern France and dove beneath the turquoise and sapphire swirled water of Cadaquez, exploring underwater caves and marveling at the beauty of the deep.  We shared milky pearls with mermaids and snuck onto pirate ships where we danced and drank and walked the plank.  We had such good times together... Now, however, I am lucky to see him for a few hours here and there.  He seems to always have a good excuse tucked into his pocket, and must leave me alone in darkness before the first rays of sunshine have had a chance to knock at my window.
     And so, yesterday, like so many Saturdays, I was awake well before even the cats had a chance to come and demand my attention.  No light penetrated the windows.  My family was still snuggled under the covers, dancing with the very sleep that excused himself from my presence.  In fact, I found that sleep had lied outright to me.  He hung over the house, playing with the cats, chasing the dogs, holding my family close.  I was not happy.
     It is impolite to wake up the whole house with the jealous noise of activity, so I did what I always do---I turned on the computer and turned to the company of my ancestors.  Lately, I have been caught between the tug and pull of several old souls that are competing for me to paint them into the light of the living once again.  I have been obliged to wash the canvas and begin painting the background quite a few times when I find that I must stop to research one small point that leads me down the rabbit hole of discovering entire new branches of information.  Consequently, I now had canvas after canvas propped up around the house, calling out to me to hurry up and paint, for heaven's sake.
    On this occasion, as I sat before the computer, all things began with my great-grandmother, Laura Wildie Roane Dominick.  I had already begun the process of writing my next post, but as seems to be the case in many of my searches as of late, I was looking for an elusive online copy of a marriage certificate.  I knew there was a marriage announcement in a 1916 newspaper, so I had been searching newspaper archives with no luck.  I had seen it at one point when I was younger---it included a beautiful photo of her in her gauzy veil that I could still vividly picture, and was determined to find it.   I searched for a bit, and when I started to feel a bit frustrated, switched over to Facebook.  A friend had posted a music video that I thought would be a perfect touch to add to a post on my fifth great-grandfather, Archibald.  I played with the lyrics for a bit and thought about how I would intersperse them among the information about his life.  Musing for a time over how to incorporate these facts, I switched over to My Heritage and began to roam through the family tree's branches that touched Archibald's life.  And then, the rabbit hole opened up and swallowed me whole.
    I did, however, have an exciting and interesting ride yesterday morning that took me from old Nashville, Tennessee through the sugar plantations of Texas and back to the roaring twenties of Birmingham, Alabama.  I have to thank sleep for eluding my desire to spend time together, because otherwise when my family woke up I would not have been able to greet them with "You are never going to guess what I found..."  I love to greet their sleepy morning faces this way.  They always stop, laugh, and looks at me like "What now?"
     The path I began with yesterday morning begins with my Great-Grandmother Dominick in the lower right-hand corner of this snapshot of the family tree:


      Laura's father, Simeon Moses Roane, was the grandson of my fifth great-grandfather, Archibald Roane.  Yesterday morning, I was also trying to locate the former home of Archibald's son,  Dr. James Roane in Nashville, TN.  It is here with her son that my fifth great-grandmother, Anne Campbell Roane lived and died after the death of her husband.  James was well-known in Nashville, as he was one of the original settlers in the area.  His father, Archibald, was the second governor of Tennessee, so besides being the area's first physician, James also received the notoriety from Archibald that created a historical footprint.  In searching for his home, I also noted James's family information in the tree.  His wife, Anne Contesse Irby Roane, I soon discovered, was first cousins with President John Tyler.  I was a bit surprised, as I knew that there was a big hullabaloo about a family legend that we were related somehow to President Jackson, but nobody had ever mentioned President Tyler.  I was appreciative of his relationship to us, but not as excited as I feel I should have been.  There were many political connections in the Roane tree, which I chalk up to the social circles that Archibald moved in.  It makes sense that these men and their children socialized with people that had common interests and professions.  This also increased each family's political weight within the government and local communities---a definite plus for their campaigns. As a result, the socializing created waves of marriages between politically connected families, and a love of the law and politics ensued through the generations of my family.
       As I researched Anne Contesse Irby Roane's family, I found that she was buried with her daughters in Houston, Texas.  I knew that James Roane had passed away from exposure the Cholera epidemic that he was working to treat in Nashville, so I figured that she must have followed one of her children to Texas.  Sure enough, her daughter, Christiana, had moved to Texas with her husband, and she must have followed.  The Texas connection intrigued me.  When I visited my sister in Texas this past summer, we dropped in at the Bullock Texas State History Museum, and learned quite a bit about the colonization and Civil War period, so I was curious about what this part of the family experienced when they moved to Texas.  I began to research, and discovered that Christiana's sister, Laura, and her brother, Archibald all moved to Texas as well.  They lived through the Civil War in Texas, and had an exciting and at times sad story to tell. Their story involves a Texas Senator, sugar plantations, murder, affairs, intrigue, and ultimately the destruction of their livelihood. However, I am going to put their story off to a future post.  (This is hard to do because they are practically screaming at me from their canvas to paint their stories, but they will have to simmer for a while.  I have bigger fish to fry today.)
    When you have a connection to a president in your family, no matter if it is in the surrounding forest or your own tree, you document it.  So...I spent some time on Anne's family tree.  Her parents were John Irby and Mary Tyler.  Mary Tyler's parents were John Chiles Tyler and Anne Contesse.  Finally, I knew where her unusual middle name originated---it was her mother's maiden name.  (This is a common practice in families with Western European backgrounds, and can be helpful in giving leads when you are researching families.)  Mary's brother was no less than President John Tyler, which was pretty interesting, but I had other details I wanted to research.  I added him to the tree and focused my attention on Anne Contesse Irby Roane's sister, Frances.   Why did her sister matter more to me than spending more time on President Tyler?  To be honest, I had a difficult time finding Anne Contesse Irby Roane's relationship to her parents because many people were only including Frances on their online family trees.  There were other children in the family besides Frances, but in so many of the trees I searched, they only named her.  It seemed odd to me, and intuitively, I decided she must be important.  Looking back, I now understand why Frances's lineage was important enough to people that they focused only on her in their trees.
     Frances, it turned out married a man named George Washington Morgan.  Their child, John Tyler Morgan was a US Senator prior to and following the Civil War.  During the Civil War, he enlisted as a private in the Alabama Infantry and was promoted to lieutenant colonel.  He later resigned and organized a regiment of rangers which he led as colonel, and was later promoted to brigadier general. His re-election and subsequent confirmation to the Senate, despite a Northern senator's outspoken opposition to a former Confederate officer serving, was astounding. I must editorialize for a moment on his life, as I discovered that he was a strong advocate of white supremacy, which makes my stomach turn.  He led serious discussions to deport African Americans and was a strong proponent of Jim Crow laws.  I am saddened that this was how he chose to use his time as a state senator and that his legacy is tainted by hatred. I wish that I could reach back through time and change whatever there was in him that caused this hatred.  I feel as though it is through his work that many lives were shattered in Alabama, and I find it beyond tragic. The good, the bad and the ugly of my family tree.  There it is...  Thankfully, I did not stop with John Tyler Morgan and continued to research the family tree because I felt that there was more to the story, and I was right.  John Tyler Morgan had a daughter named Musidora whose family hid the gem that left me breathless...
     Let me take a moment to give some background on why Musidora's family story is important to me.  You can say that I have always been fascinated with literature.  I have written stories, poems and character sketches for as long as I could gather a few words together in a sentence.  Literature and the creative process have been riding with me either as a book in my hand or a dream in my heart all of my life. As a student in the English department at Appalachian State University, I participated in a study abroad venture that changed my life.  Two of my English professors lead a trip that followed the path of expatriate writers F. Scott Fitzgerald and  Ernest Hemingway, among others.  Fitzgerald's The Great Gatsby was a favorite novel of mine.  There was something about his descriptions and phrasing that always left me wanting more.  I was not only fascinated with his writing style but also with the Fitzgeralds' tumultuous relationships with each other and the world around them. During the trip,  I consumed Hemingway's A Moveable Feast, which was Hemingway's candid and often brutal portrayal of his fellow expatriates.  He often spoke about the Fitzgeralds and his distaste for Zelda, whom he believed was destroying Fitzgerald.  I have since read other accounts of the Fitzgeralds and can say that I feel sad for both of them.  Theirs was another whirlwind romance that, when paired with the time's restrictive atmosphere for women and the twin demons of alcoholism and bipolar illness, destroyed the two people it loved the most.  Our trip was the stuff of dreams---I enjoyed frequenting the cafes where these men and women sipped café au lait as they sketched out their masterpieces.  I walked the streets that they walked, and gazed at sights that their eyes also found splendid.   My first husband proposed to me on this trip, and later on our honeymoon, we would find the house that F. Scott and Zelda rented in Alabama and sit beneath its roof---a museum dedicated to their memory.  F. Scott and Zelda's romance was intertwined with mine---filled with moments of sunshine, threatening skies, stormy winds and destruction.
     But, how does this relate to Musidora and our genealogy adventure?  I am getting to that... Musidora's family tree shocked me and left me stunned for a more than a few moments yesterday morning.  I double-checked my sources against other sources and was confronted with a true gem hidden in the forest---not in my tree---but the trees that surrounded it, lending shade and protecting it with their branches.  This is what I saw:


      Musidora's granddaughter was the tortured yet creative writer and painter, Zelda Fitzgerald.  Her husband had written my favorite novel, and had, according to her, stolen quotes from her diary to give life to his female characters.  When I sat in her former Alabama home twenty-three years ago and chatted with the museum's owner, when I stayed at the Grove Park Inn in Asheville and noted the views that F. Scott Fitzgerald surveyed as he battled his addiction to alcohol, as I sat at Le Sélect in Paris and imagined what it must have been like on the eve of WWII, I was not only thinking of literary greats, I was communing with family.  Storytelling, a love of literature, and a fondness for wordplay not only run through the branches, leaves and roots of my tree but also in the forest that surrounds it.  You can say a lot about the South's history that is unflattering, violent and at times true, but there is one truth that shines like a beacon through the darkness. We know how to live and tell one hell of a story.

Lessons Learned
Research the ordinary-seeming people you find in your tree.  You may have never heard their names before the moment you first pull them up. There may not be any information attached to the record you find about them from another genealogist's shared family tree.  However, just like the quiet boy or girl in high school whose behavior, appearance or speech didn't scream "Hey!  Look at me," but somehow wound up performing a heroic feat like successfully landing a plane whose power had failed or becoming a leading advocate of civil rights in their community, these ancestors will enrich your life.

 
Zelda Sayre Fitzgerald

Happy Hunting,
Catherine
         




Saturday, September 3, 2016

Pinterest Surprises and A Wartime Romance

   

     A sharp, aching pain was running behind my right shoulder blade, and I was frustrated.  I had remained hunched over my keyboard for hours, determined to find a copy of my Grandmother and Grandfather Poynter's marriage certificate.  I knew that they had eloped during WWII, but apparently they had left the state to do so.  It was getting late at night; I was in pain, and I was irritated.  It is not an enjoyable experience when you hit a road block, but in my experience, stepping away from your research for a while, you will approach the subject with a fresh perspective and be more successful later. So, I decided to go to bed. Grudgingly, I unplugged the laptop and lugged it upstairs to the bedroom. Mike was out of town, and I wanted to browse Facebook and Pinterest for a while before falling asleep.  I scrolled through pictures of dessert recipes, Joanna Gaines inspired decorating tips, and French cafes, but my tired mind could not let go of my grandparents.  I went to the search field and typed in "marriage records."  A slew of sites popped up, and I set to pinning them for later when my mind was fresh.  I rolled over on my side, laptop beside me, and went to the search field one last time.  The keys clicked sharply as I sarcastically typed "Marcia and Robert Poynter" in the box.  The page slowly buffered as my heavy eyelids closed for a minute's rest.  My eyes opened to a sight that caused me to wonder if I was still asleep.  My grandparents smiled sweetly at me from their engagement photo as if to say,  "Here we are!  Keep trying!"

     I sat upright and stared at the screen.  Really?  Of all places, I found them on Pinterest?  I read the description of the pin and smiled.  Yes, theirs was a romantic beginning, and I was happy that their story had put a smile on a stranger's face. I still didn't have their marriage record, but I had a renewed belief that I would be successful in my search.
      Eventually, I did find their marriage record.  I remembered that there was a newspaper article in the Macon Telegraph about their war time romance, so I went to Archives.com and luckily found the article. Within the article, I discovered that they eloped to Arkansas, and from there I found their marriage record online.  Even though the Pinterest pin did not directly lead me to the information I was looking for, it taught me a valuable lesson: you can find information on your ancestors in places that you would never have imagined was possible.  That social media site that you think would be a waste of time to try?  Give it a go.  You never know what you will find. 
     If you have a moment, I would like to briefly tell you the romantic story that inspired a stranger to pin their photo on Pinterest.   

Marcia and Bob's Wartime Romance

     World War II was well-underway, and my grandmother was one of the many young American women working in nontraditional jobs to support the war effort.  Marcia Everett donned an olive drab uniform and moved to Jacksonville, Florida where she logged her days at the Jacksonville Naval Station Air Force Base, proudly serving her country.  By all accounts, she seemed to enjoy her freedom and her life despite the war.  She had survived the Great Depression as a young woman, and had developed the determination and iron will that her generation was well known for.  Her parents lived nearby, and she had plenty of friends and cousins to keep her entertained.  Marcia spoke her mind and lived the life that she saw fit to follow. Who knows if romance was even on her mind when a squadron of British Royal Air Force Cadets arrived on base for training?  But one thing is for sure--- a handsome cadet from England named Bob Poynter stole her heart.  It could have been his British accent, his amber eyes or his easy smile that caught her off-guard.  Or maybe it was a wicked wit and a confident spirit...I will never know how he was able to carry such an independent woman off in a wild storm of emotions and blow her away, but blow her away he did.
Marcia Aileen Everett
     Marcia and Bob spent every moment possible in each other's arms, taking nothing for granted in their rapidly changing world.  Sadly, the war had its own plans for them that did not include staying in Florida, caught up in the breathtaking winds of a new romance. Marcia was suddenly transferred to a base in Memphis, Tennessee.  At the same time, Bob was involved in an accident at sea in which his plane was forced to land on water. He volunteered to climb out onto the wing of the plane to work on the problem.  However, he was thrown in the water, and was pulled under.  He struggled in the water for forty-five minutes---  a time period long enough to seriously damage his lungs.  He was in the hospital for sometime, and upon recovering, received a furlough. I am sure that he was feeling his own mortality and the desire to live his life without regrets as he drove to Tennessee to visit Marcia. I wonder how long he thought about proposing to her.  Did he consider that one of them would have to leave their home country and start fresh in a new culture?  Or did he jump in, heart first, and hold fast to the strong feelings that stormed around him despite warnings to slow down?  I am not sure how he proposed, but he did, and Marcia decided to jump into the future alongside of him.  
     I can only imagine how their hearts must have hurt as they were faced with the news that they had to have known was inevitable. Bob was ordered to ship off to Canada for further training and then return to England to fight the Nazi's.   Excited for a new future together, Marcia and Bob eloped to Arkansas where the marriage laws allowed for a quicker marriage than in Florida or Georgia where Marcia had grown up.  It is at this point that Marcia made a courageous decision, one that had her hometown of Macon, Georgia abuzz with excitement.  She decided that she would travel to England where Bob was fighting and join the British Women's Auxiliary Air Force to drive an ambulance.  I wonder if there were arguments over her decision to join him in England---after all, she was removing herself from the relative safety of the States for war-torn Britain where bombs were steadily falling.  Was she thinking clearly about her decision, or did this hurricane have her so swept away that all she wanted was to be near him, helping him in whatever way she could?  All of Macon, Georgia (where her parents lived) was electrified with the news.  The story had all of the hallmarks of a great romance, and Marcia was a bit of a celebrity for a while.  
     I have a copy of the newspaper article from the Macon Telegraph in which her mother was interviewed after Marcia had left for England.  It is a full page article, and discusses her romance with Robert, the decision to join him in England, her mother's unconditional love for Marcia, and yes, even Marcia's love of cats.  I am delighted that I have this article.  It is clear how much Great Grandmother Everett adored and doted on her only child---the reporter even mentions the wall in her house dedicated to picture after picture of my grandmother and the embarrassed protests that she made against this virtual shrine.  It seems like a scene from any modern family's home, and thanks to the article, I have insight into my great grandmother's personality even though I never met her.
     I have no stories of what life was like for them during the war while they lived in England, but I do know that eventually Bob was sent to officer's training school and Marcia was allowed to resign from the WAAF to be near him.  They survived the war and after a time moved back to the States, probably so that Marcia could be near her family.   
     In the years following the war, the winds that caught them up swirled out of control, and as with any hurricane, the result was destruction.  However, what a beginning they had, and the result of their romance, no matter how sad on one level, ended with my uncles who I love with all my heart,  a dear half-aunt, half-cousins, and my father who gave me life.  So Marcia and Bob, here is to taking a chance on your great adventure that is warming people's hearts even today.

Happy Hunting,
Catherine

Grandfather Poynter, My Dad And Uncles